This lovely monument is one of the primary reasons I fell in love with cemeteries. It stands in the little farming community graveyard near the farm where I grew up. When I was a child, my parents drove by Bendle Cemetery all the time. Finally, one summer day when we had nothing else to do, my mom brought my brother and I into the cemetery to explore.
Since then, I have been completely fascinated by the Youells family monument and visit it every chance I get. The stone tree trunk stands more than six feet tall, topped with an open book inscribed with the names Abram and Harriet Youells. A potted Calla lily and fern are carved against the base of the tree. Stone ivy rings the trunk. Part of the “bark” seems to have been peeled back in order to write the family name.
Usually a tree trunk with its limbs removed signifies a family that dies out without heirs, but Abram left a son behind. Apparently, Abram — who served in the Civil War, before coming to Michigan as a blacksmith — was quite a storyteller. The post about him on Findagrave is really worth reading.
The monument is tricky to photograph. It stands in the permanent shadow of a whitecedar. I have photos of it at every time of day, but this overcast afternoon proved to be the best. I love the way the Fuji film makes the image so very green, almost as green as my childhood memories of Michigan.